Why Some Women Have Amazing And FAST Success With Online Dating… And How YOU Can Do The Same

No doubt you’ve heard stories of people who have met the love of their lives online. Or maybe you even personally know someone who’s had it happen.
I recently read somewhere that 1 out of 8 couples married in the U.S. last year met online.
1 out of 8!Wild.But at the same time, I also personally know a lot of women who attempted to use the web to meet someone special but had no luck whatsoever.

Some of these unlucky women never got any real responses from men… while others I know got a TON of attention, but not from the type of men they were looking for.
And other women have told me about situations where they felt a strong connection with a guy when conversing online and by email and by phone. But when they met in person it just wasn’t “there”.

The thing is… there are thousands of people online these days… millions in fact… which makes for pretty strong odds in favor of finding at least one person out there for you.
So here’s the real question…Why is it that while thousands of women end up finding true love online…others don’t find anyone at all?

And why is it that many of the women who are successful often meet someone FAST… without spending hours on the computer… and without going on a bunch of dates that lead nowhere?
Is it luck?Well, I’m sure it is, for some. But that just couldn’t be the situation in all cases…

Could it also be that the women who ended up meeting their dream man online were doing something DIFFERENTLY… something that gave themselves an edge that allowed them to find, meet and get to know a great man… while at the same time avoid wasting time with the wrong ones?

It’s a question I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about… and now, after speaking with literally hundreds of different men and women who have found love online, I am excited to say the answer is YES.

Yes - there ARE things that women who successfully meet the right men online do differently… and YES, these things they do differently give them a huge advantage over other women.

And what’s really exciting is that these differences have NOTHING to do with...

• Having above average looks… or needing to attract a man with your looks alone
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• Wasting your time spending hours and hours talking to men online
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• Having exceptional writing ability or being a big “self-promoter” to get a man’s interest
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These aren’t the things that get the right man’s interest and attention online.

Instead, the things that allow a woman to jump online and meet a great man very quickly are things that ANY woman can do. But surprisingly, VERY FEW women are doing what works with men online.

That’s why when you finally learn and know the correct strategies and techniques for identifying and attracting the right kind of man online, you will easily able to...

Invest just 10-20 minutes of your time putting up a profile, and get emails from 10 or more interesting, attractive men that same night

Invest 1-2 hours a week whenever you feel like it, and be almost guaranteed to attract and meet at least several interesting and fun men who could turn out to be the one for you

Quickly “sift” through a large portion of all the single men in your city, state, or even across the world, and get a quick window into their life to identify the good from the bad… without ever having to deal with “creeps” and “weirdos”

Stop from wondering IF there are any quality guys out there to deciding which one of the single, attractive, successful men you are getting to know you want to share your precious time and attention with

let every man you come in contact with KNOW that you are rare and special… giving yourself all of the choosing power when it came to men, dating, and relationships… and having men practically LINING UP to “prove themselves” to you

Avoid the “small talk” and go directly to interacting with a man in a more personal but casual way where he will want to share more about his true self

Instantly disqualify the wrong men who would waste your time before ever having to meet or go on a date with them

more about a man before ever having to go out with him than many women find out about a man after months of dating... or even well into the relationship

Easily go from getting in contact with a man, to seeing what he is interested in and ready for in his love life, to meeting with him, connecting with him, and developing a deep level of trust and understanding that paves the way for a loving, connected, secure relationship

Of course the best part is that you can make all this happen on your own time, from your own home, whenever you feel like it in your busy life.

I’d like to show you what the tips, strategies and differences are that have helped other women quickly find the right man for them… and how YOU can begin using these simple tactics IMMEDIATELY to find the love you want today.

How To Find Yours Men Online And Hold Him...

Do you know why nowadays thousands of men are dating online??

Online dating used to have a bad reputation of being just a place where creeps and geeks went to get a date – male and female.Fortunately that is not the case. Not by a long shot.

Nearly every guy I know who women would consider to be a GREAT CATCH has some sort of presence online… whether it be on a dating site or social network.

Especially “savvy” men who are good communicators and like to connect with the world and new people.Here’s something to think about- I’m guessing that nearly all of the great men you know right now are TAKEN. They’re dating or married to someone you know.

And those great guys who aren’t in a serious relationship… guess what they’re doing? They’re online.

The point is… the kind of men who are looking for love online are often professional, smart, single guys who just aren’t interested in the “bar scene” as a place to meet women, but who ARE interested in finding the right partner to their share their interests and passions.

The kind of man you might find online may be the attractive divorced neighbor across the street. The one you admiringly glimpse at when he’s mowing his lawn, who would love to find a woman just like you to share his life with…

Or it can be the shy, sensitive guy who loves all the same things you like, but whose path you’d never cross in “real life” because of the realities of our distracted, busy world and the fact that we don’t often travel outside our own little “routines”.

The bottom line is that a great man right kind of man for you goes online for the same exact reason YOU do – to find someone to share a loving, connected relationship with.
There are many more men like this online that you might imagine. Real men who are looking for real women to connect with.

Get to Know these That E-dating Is....Not

E- Dating dating is not

When people think of the term “e- dating”… many imagine getting on a computer, browsing profiles, and exchanging emails with the opposite sex.

I want you to do me a favor, and wipe this image from your mind RIGHT NOW.

I want you to STOP thinking of online dating as sitting in front of a computer talking to men all day.That is NOT what this is all about.

E- dating is simply a great tool for finding a great man… then meeting him in person and sharing a great relationship.

It is NOT about actually “dating online”… sitting on a computer for hours… “cyber sex” or making “pen pals”.

No way. What woman in her right mind wants to waste more time with a man they don’t even really know?
Online dating is simply a great way to meet someone who is right for you. And guess what else? You aren’t the only one who realizes this…

Finding Your Right Man From Oline Dating Sites...Don't Miss it Out...

Dear To Women Readers,
If you've ever wanted to know how you could be one of the thousands of happy women who has found the love of her life online,then here is the best part of the game.Before we go further let me ask you a simple question.And the quiz is...
Are you single Women right now?And are you tired of meeting too many of the WRONG MEN who end up wasting your time? Do you find yourself wondering why it's so hard just to meet a normal guy?
Or where in the world you might actually be able to meet a great guy?

If you're not totally thrilled with your love life and the men you're meeting... then it's about time you did something to change your luck. What I'm about to share with you could change your luck in love almost instantly. If you're open to it. If you've ever been curious about Online Dating but didn't know how to go about it...

Or if you've ever tried it and didn't have much success like some other women... then I've
got good news for you-Let me ask you something as a single woman...

How often do you actually end up crossing paths with a genuinely attractive and interesting man who is real "relationship material" for you?Once every few weeks or months?Every few YEARS?
However long it is... what are you doing in the meantime?

Are you spending your life finding ways to be "busy" doing EVERYTHING BUT enjoying the
company of a man and the relationship you want?What are you spending your time doing?
Do the math for a second...If you seem to meet and attract a lot of the WRONG MEN... and it's only on very rare occasions that you actually come across the right kind of man who has potential, then there's something
you should know...

The reality is that your odds of success for finding what you want in the real world, where chance meetings are all you have to work with, are really about the same odds as winning the lottery. Very small odds.

And let's not mention how the odds get even smaller because you not only have to find theright man... but you also actually have to TALK to him and get his attention and interest (that alone means that neither of you are on a cell phone, driving a car, or in rush to a business meeting or appointment - how often does THAT happen?).

But that's a whole other story.The point is... how would it be to meet not just one great guy, but have a whole group of great guys at your fingertips who you could chat with and get to know?And how would it be if you didn't have to go out and try to meet a guy at some bar or club where there aren't too many of the kinds of men you're looking for in the first place.

Luckily, there's another way to go about things that can actually give you a whole lot more insight, control, comfort, and certainty about the kind of man you're meeting.And best of all... it only takes a few short
minutes to get started.

Now, I know that the last thing you want is to start meeting a whole new crop of the wrong random men online... and go out on a whole bunch of dates that go absolutely nowhere.

I know that. And that's why am here to show you how to AVOID all these problems other women have when it comes to online dating.
There's a way to screen the wrong guys out online that, at the same time, will make you stand out and help you capture the right man's attention.
If you're ready to learn how to meet the right man for you, and you're tired of waiting around for it to happen... then i will show you how you will go about making and dating men online.

I will show you exactly how to use the Internet, email, and dating sites to bring a great guy to you.
It's time to let love and the right man find you... online.DON'T MISS IT OUT...

Still You Are Having Sex Without Love...

Mistake #7) Rushing To Judgment About Your
Man's Character By Physical observations Alone

People aren't easy to figure out.Especially the opposite sex.The last several years of my life I've
spent hundreds of hours learning to understand people. I've studied peoples behavior, "inner
psychology" and more specifically how they think and act when they're dating.

From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things.
But you can only see these secret communications if you know what to look for.
Women communicate with hints, body language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're
first getting to know a man.

They can either directly or indirectly let men know if they're open to something
more serious. Men are different.Men generally communicate with sarcasm,
humor, cockyness and other "indirect" displays of status.

Very rarely will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he's
ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship. Aside from their sexual interests, men
send very indirect signals about where they're at.

If you don't know how to read through the signals men send, then you'll get the wrong
message.Getting the wrong messages from men causes women more pain and heartache than any other issue around.You can avoid this pain if you learn to identify a good man from a bad one.
Mistake #8) Make Yourself Before You Make Your Man Happy

A mistake I've seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy
and fulfilled.And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens.
But those are the exceptions, not the rule.Nothing says "Run!" to a man faster than
hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.

And the men who ARE looking for this kind of situation aren't exactly the most healthy,
loving, nurturing people out there.Think, "controlling, macho or serious Mom Issues!"
So let me be clear....I think it's important that people help fulfill each other in their lives, whether
it's dating, a relationship, etc.

But if a woman communicates that she's looking for a guy to take care of her, complete
her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what
the man will think of her.It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman either...

If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless.
This is arguably the worst thing a woman can do early on when dating a man.So what can you do as a woman?

You can get the man interested and involved in your life in a more "natural" way, where
he'll be motivated to make you care about your happiness and fulfillment on his own.
This is the only way it really works for people - male or female.

Self-motivation is much stronger than external motivation.But you have to know how to create this situation with a man....and it rarely happens by accident.

Mistake #9) Don't Bargain To Be Liked Or To Be Loved

What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like... but he's just not
that interested or isn't as serious?Right! They try to "convince" the man to
feel differently.Well, I have news for you...

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE A MAN'S "EMOTIONAL FEELINGS"BUT "A MAN'S DESIRED FEELINGS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!!! TAKE THIS FROM ME DEAR...

Never, ever, ever. Never,ever,ever again.You cannot convince a man to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".Think about it. A man doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that by being "reasonable" with him?

But we all do it. Men are the worst at this by the way. They're always complimenting women who don't like them and buying them gifts.Women like the behavior sometimes, but it
NEVER makes the woman like the man.

She might enjoy what she gets out of it, but it doesn't change the way she FEELS
about him.When a man just isn't interested, women will try and chase, compliment, convince and do their best to change his mind with logical and rational approaches.Bad idea. Another one that will never work.

Mistake #10) Confused Of What To Do In Your Relationship

A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman...And I don't mean just sex.I know, it might be hard to believe, but if you're out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you.

And if you don't know HOW to find this out, and you just sit there looking at him and flirting,
or trying things you think will make him want you, he won't help!If you don't know what to do in each situation, you'll probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

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Mistake #3) Wearing “A Mask Figure” For A Man

In the desire to please a man, women are constantly doing things to get a man's attention, to get him to like them or to make him more attracted or in love with them.
Another Horrible idea. Lots of women mistakenly think that doing unusual things to try and get a guys attention .will make him magically see what a great catch
they are and want to be with them. Totally Wrong.

Men you truly want are never attracted to the types of women who kiss up to them, make weak plays for affection or complain to get what they want... ever. Don’t get me wrong here. Things like being sexy for a man or encouraging him to share his feelings can be good, but it has to be genuine, unselfish, and most of all timely.

You don't have to act like an "EASY" woman for men to like you, and you certainly don't have to play like he's some gift to the Ear. Doing these things actually works to subtly, at an subconscious level, lower your social status with a man, which has everything to do with how he sees you as a woman.

So if you think that making him more attracted to you means "playing to the man's fantasies" from the start, think again. You'll never succeed by looking for a man's
approval, finding your way into his heart through sex and not being yourself.


Mistake #4) Re-feeling Too Early To A Man

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how their" Desired feelings" too early on. Listen... Attractive, single, successful men are rare.
They get a lot of attention from women.

Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women. And guess what? Attractive when have usually dated a lot of women. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything... It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the man that you're just like one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives. This does not spell attraction for a man. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...

Mistake #5) Failing To Read The Important "Symptoms" From Your Man

Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves. Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.
The symptoms men send have several levels:
a). Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction
b). Emotional: Whether or not he's "emotionally available"
c). Physical: If he's attracted to you and for what reasons
d). Love State: If he's open to building and growing a relationship in the future

The amazing thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident.
That's great news to women.... Men can't help it! You need to learn to recognize these signs to get anywhere with a man.

Mistake #6) Being Too Proud to Ask

This is the biggest mistake of all. This mistake keeps women from EVER having
the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want.

I know, you don't like to make yourself look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask
for help. Hey, I've been there myself. Let me tell you a little about me.
Over the last few years it's been hard to watch the women around me (even those I dated) struggle to understand the men they were attracted to or dating.

It frustrated the hell out of me and I made the decision to do whatever it took to
help the women I knew learn how to be successful with men and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world
truth about men and women, I finally figured things out for myself.

I've read hundreds of books on psychology, human behavior, dating/relationship advice for men and women, love, attraction, communication,
and more. The list goes on. I can now approach just about any situation
with dating and feel confident and understand everything that's going on in an interaction.

Best of all, I've been able to share my knowledge and help women become more successful with men and dating. It's been a very rewarding experience, and
it's how I became fascinated with the female perspective in the dating world.

I've helped women get rid of that sick, insecure feeling... the one you get when you're
lonely, you've been hurt or lied to, or when a man you have feelings for says "he's not ready". You don't have to be afraid you might wind up being lied to, cheated on or that you'll end up alone.

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Mistake #1) Not sure of her Love-Life with the man she is in love with.

Do you know any women who want the man they're dating to behave differently? Of course you do.
And just like me, I'm sure you have friends who date guys who don't have much going for them
or who don't treat them very well. Somehow these women always have an excuse for the guy's shortcomings .What's going on here? It's actually very simple. Women (and men) don't base their choices of
men on how "nice" or "good" someone is to them day-to-day.

Women choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what? Some women will continue to put up with a guy that doesn't treat them very well.
Sometimes for months or years...But why in the world would a woman do that!? Well, to put it simply, they confuse the strong attraction they feel for the guy with a deeper "connection".

Women who do this are doomed to end up in failed relationships with the "wrong" guys. How do I know?
Because I've seen it at least a hundred times... And because I've been this guy in the past
myself. Thinking back on past dating and relationships I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much.

I'm amazed the women put up with me. But they did...all the while hoping that I would somehow change. The women I dated hoped I'd change. The only thing they saw in me that led them to want to keep me around was the "potential" they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate with them.

The potential for something better and the potential for me to change and be a better lover, boyfriend,
The truth was, I was hopelessly bad at these things at the time. And more importantly, I wasn't even at a place in my life where I knew how to or was interested in developing a deep and committed relationship -
with ANYONE. But deep down these women believed that if they tried hard enough, that it would make up for what was lacking.

They believed that I could become someone else with them.... and that this would be easy for us
both. Talk about a losing battle. I doesn't make a lot of "logical" sense... But until you accept that lots of women do this AND that YOU could be doing it on some level, you'll NEVER have the success with men that you choose and want.

Mistake #2)THEY DON'T MAKE A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "THE PHYSICAL MAN" THEY GOT AND HIS Psychology

Men are different from women. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a woman sees a man, she can very quickly pick apart certain things about his style, body language, status and character that will tell her all kinds of things about him. Lot's of women don't even consciously see that they do this because the process is so obvious and simple for them. But does the same apply for men? As you probably already know, men are generally more visual.

As a result, they often don't understand non-verbal communication as well as women. And men often lack what women have in emotional awareness and "intuition". Women don't seem to remember this about men. So do men feel sexually attracted to w0men based just on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for years now, and talking to thousands of men and women, I can
tell you that men have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Especially when it comes to longer term relationships. Looks just happen to be the most obvious way...
But looks are NOT the most powerful. If you know how to use your body language AND communication correctly, you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great guy that you got to know. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY woman can learn how...