The Personality Traits Men Find Irresistible In Women

The inner beauty men love in women’s personality; is the supreme realization of the innate idiosyncrasy of a living being. It is an act of high courage flung in the face of life, the absolute affirmation of all that constitutes the individual, the most successful adaptation to the universal condition of existence coupled with the greatest possible freedom for self-determination.

If you are obsessing about whether a man will fall in love with you because you do not look like a cover girl, forget it. You need more than just your outer beauty to get a man to fall in love with you. Sure your looks may initially catch a guy's eyes, but it will take more than your looks to keep him. So in this post I will share the five personality traits that men find irresistible.

Your looks cannot buy a man 's love. So forget trying to surgically alter your appearance in order to attract men. If you are thinking about going to a plastic surgeon to get an extreme body makeover, you may end up doing yourself more harm than good. What men find attractive in women goes way beyond what a woman looks like. 

If looks were the sole reason men fall in love with women, then why do some men still cheat on their beautiful girlfriends and wives. And if you look closely, the girls they have these affairs with are nothing to write home about. The reason? That is precisely why I have written this article.So without wasting any more time, here are the five personality traits that men find more attractive than beauty alone:

Pt#1. Sexiness

The sexier you are, the more attractive men will find you. So what is sexy? Being sexy does not apply to any one aspect of your being. Sexiness has something to do with how you dress, talk, carry yourself, and interact with men. If you have a good sense of style and you know how to wear clothes that complement your figure, then you have won a third of the battle of being sexy. And the way you carry yourself when you interact with men, makes up the other two-thirds.

Pt#2. High self-esteem

If you cannot walk into a room and feel confident that you have what it takes to attract the single men in that room, then your lack of confidence will ooze out from every pore of your body and paint a picture in the minds of the men who are looking at you. But if on the other hand you walk into a room looking self-assured, more men will find you attractive.

Pt#3. Pleasant personality

You can get more guys to chase you if you know how to smile and show your happy and friendly side. If you walk into a room looking like a guy just dumped you and you have that look that says, "I hate all men", then men will read your message loud and clear and stay away from you. 

Pt#4. Intelligence

You don't have to be a brain surgeon to get a date with the cutest guy at the party. All you have to do is speak intelligently about issues of the day and a lot of men will want to talk and get to know you better. 

Pt#5. Approachable

This personality trait ranks very high when it comes to the traits men find very attractive in women. If your friends find you easy going, then thank your goodness. You stand a much better chance of attracting more men. But if your friends think that you are very difficult and hard to get along or live with, then you can be sure that the men you meet will feel the same way.

Sadly, many women will go their entire lives without ever experiencing true love and connection with a man they care about. I don't want you to be one of them. This blog will show you exactly how to find the love you’ve been waiting your whole life to find and do it in a way that will make you feel good inside because you'll know that you're giving yourself and a man what you both Really want - an attractive, happy, and together woman. I personally guarantee it.

I will talk to you again soon.Keep on Dating There is someone out there for everyone.

Best of luck in life and love!

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Why Men Hate to Commit to Women In A Relationships?

To begin with let me ask you this simple question;Why are you playing the hot and cold game with him? If your relationships with men seem to get harder over time, instead of closer, and even though you love each other, you find you start turning against one another instead of towards...Then you need to find out the truth about what will quickly stop this pattern of conflict and withdrawal and inspire your man to be a great partner to you again. So if your man is having a hard time committing to you, he may be doing so as a result of one of these reasons;

1. He is getting all the benefits of being in a romantic relationship without being engaged to you.
So if you are giving him all of you without him being fully committed to you for the long term, you present him with a situation where he sees no tangible reason to take that next step when he is getting all of you free of charge.

2. He is afraid that what happened to his parents might happen to him so he is being extra cautious. Some men want to be in romantic relationships, but when they remember what happened to their parents -- divorce -- they get cold feet.

3. They have not finished sowing their wild oats and committing to you one hundred percent will prevent them from getting their groove on.

4. You are not quite what they have in mind. They are comfortable hanging out with you, but they don't think you are exactly what they are looking for.
It does not mean that you are not good enough for them; it is just that you do not fit the type of woman they are looking for. For example -- some men want freaks in bed -- a woman with a high sex drive.
If you meet their expectations in all the other aspects of life and you just don't have the kind of sex drive they want their future wife to have, they may not want to commit themselves to a long term relationship with you.

5. You do not challenge them enough.
They see you as someone they can pretty much tell anything and get what they want. Men want women they have to work hard to keep.

6. You may have some issues with your weight that they may not be very comfortable with. Sure they seem to enjoy your company, but the weight issue may be keeping them from making you the woman of their dreams.
Most men are simply afraid of the fact that their woman may gain the kind of weight that will end up turning them off down the road.

7. If you have no drive or ambition, some men will not want to commit to you. If they sense that you are not the type that will contribute to the financial well-being of their home, they will not be very motivated to stay with you for the long term.

8. You have a tendency to want to control them. If a man feels that you are the type that will end up wanting to control their life that man will not want to be romantically involved with you for the long term.
He will end up keeping you long enough for him to find a woman that will let him be himself.

9. He may be in the middle of trying to move onto another relationship that he is working on. While he is trying to make sure that the other woman is the one he wants, he will keep you hanging -- he will not commit to you.

10. If a man sees that you are a big flirt, he will not commit to you.
Why? Well, no man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who cannot control their flirtatious ways with other men.

So you see, men have a ton of reasons why they may not want to commit to women.
So if you are not getting the kind of commitment you want from your man, then you need to either change certain things you are doing, or simply let him know what you want and if he does not act on it, then move on.

I will talk to you again soon.Keep on Dating There is someone out there for everyone.
Best of luck in life and love!