You have the power to make your luck in love. I hope you feel excited and committed to creating the love life you've always wanted, and completely deserve.
I hope you are committed to taking the
steps necessary to understand the patterns of your past, so you can create a
new, more successful relationship in the future.
But enough of what you are going to
learn, let's kick this relationship off with some insight into exactly what
makes a man emotionally attracted to a woman.
There are six critical elements you must
understand when it comes to love and a relationship with a man.
They are:
- Attraction
- Commitment
- Sex
- Love
- Communication
- Boundaries
But the step that has to come first, the
element that rules all other elements... is attraction. And here's the crucial
question... How do you trigger that attraction so it lasts?
There's a certain "code" that
men use when it comes to describing a woman they crave and want to get to know
on a deeper level... I call her "the cool girl."
The "cool girl" isn't about
wearing the latest designer fashions, or knowing the hippest night spots, or
having the most Facebook friends.
The "cool girl" is guy-speak
for the kind of woman who is attractive to men in a way that even they can't
explain or often aren't aware of. It's a way of being that triggers unconscious,
but totally all-encompassing, attraction in men.
In other words, "cool
girl" = "relationship material."
Here are "Cool Girl" qualities...
and how to live them
A cool girl has a certain "positive
emotional energy" that men can relate to. She might not necessarily be the
most physically attractive woman in the room, but there's just something about
her that men find irresistible.
That "something" are rules
that cool girls live by. And they are things you can start doing... today... to
change how a man feels about and responds to you.
1. Cool girl rule #
1: Be positive
When you bring funny, positive thoughts
and feelings to situations, you create an experience that men will want to have
again and again.
That's because a cool girl understands
that instead of complaining about little, insignificant details like the food,
the temperature, or the state of the trash, which will make him feel
unappreciated and disinterested...you can have a good time and celebrate the
fun and excitement you are feeling with him, creating a foundation of positive
experiences. This is the fastest way to make him connect with you and want more
of you in his life, not less.
2. Cool girl rule
#2: Go with the flow... most of the time
It's important that you show enough
flexibility and spontaneity to go with the flow when it comes to social things.
This makes a man feel he can make you happy - and for men, making a woman feel happy
is how he feels good about himself.
Men, especially those with high-powered,
stressful careers, don't want more stress from the woman in their lives. They
want to come home to a woman who can be flexible about plans instead of rigid
or set in her ways.
However, they also respect a woman who
has boundaries and says clearly what is not okay with her. You don't want to be
a doormat, or seem like a person who needs his approval. You are a confident,
fun-loving, "cool" woman who can kick up her heels and have a good
time, but also knows her mind and loves to share it.
3. Cool girl rule #3: Have options
Cool girls are interesting women who
have lots of options, interests, hobbies or friends that make them happy.
Cool girls do not put all their
happiness in what a man does or says. They make their own happiness, and
therefore a man doesn't feel obligated to spend time with her or include her...
he wants to.
4. Cool girl rule #4: Don't force
Cool girls prefer that a man makes up
his own mind; they don't try to make a man do something.
If a man feels coerced or nagged or
cornered into doing something, he will resent you. He won't feel respected and
will feel misunderstood. But he won't tell you that. He'll just withdraw so he
won't be forced to do things he doesn't want to do.
Instead of forcing him, let him know how
happy he will make you if he does something, and then step back. He'll feel
like you trust him and in turn will want to make you happy.
5. Cool girl rule #5: Love yourself
A cool girl knows that the way she feels
and talks about herself is how a man will feel about her.
When a woman talks negatively about
herself, whether it's her weight, her intelligence or her life in general, that's
how a man will see her. If she is looking to him for her worth and self-love,
he's not going to be interested. He'll see her as needy and not as someone he
wants to commit to. But if she loves herself inside and out, he will love her
and want to worship her forever.
Starting to get a clearer picture about
the kind of woman a man can't help but want to be around and get to know better
the kind of woman he sees as a long-term prospect rather than a friend or a
casual fling?
Good. I've got much more to tell you
about the kind of woman a great guy is attracted to - along with the other five
elements you need to understand in order to have a great relationship.
I will talk to ya again soon.
Keep on dating! There is someone out there for everyone.
Best of luck in love and life!
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