How To Make Man Who Acted Cold to Act Hot Again

Ok, so now that you know what not to do when a man goes cold, here's how to handle the situation the next time it happens and inspire the right guy to "recover."

1. Center yourself and get clear on your wants

What you need to do first, before you do anything else, is get clear about what you want and expect from your love life.

You need to be honest with yourself first before you can be honest with anyone else in your life. Stop pretending you only want a casual, fun fling when what you really want is to have a committed, serious relationship that's going somewhere.

Here's the thing: Getting clear about what you want will help guide your mind in all kinds of positive directions to help you find and attract the right situations and people in your life.

Accepting a situation that is anything other than what you truly want will not only make you unhappy, it will keep you tied to a man who's not right for you. So really ask yourself what kind of relationship you want before you become involved with a man and the chemistry starts to cloud your vision.

2. Communicate clearly

Let me tell you something important that you might have gotten mixed up as a woman in relationships with men who wouldn't listen...

It's ok to want what you want and to let a man know it. In fact, it's a must. And it's ok to tell a man that his behavior doesn't match with what you want.

The amazing thing is that men crave honest women who are up front about who they are and what they want in relationships... in a way that says that she's not too attached to the immediate outcome and subtly lets him know that he better have his act together, or else.

Suppose you're with a man who has a wandering eye or wants an "open relationship", and that's not what you want. You can say, "You have every right to be with any woman you want, just not when you're with me."

That's not an ultimatum or a threat. It's a simple, clear statement about your wishes that also respects his right to choose. When faced with open communication like that, a mature man will respect a woman and realize that he's dealing with an equal.

This in itself will go far in triggering the deep level of emotional attraction I talked about earlier. What's more, once you become vulnerable like this and state your truth, your respect for yourself will also increase, and with it your self-esteem. You'll not only move closer to the relationship you want, but you'll weed out the guys who can't give you that in the process.

3. Create the space

This is the critical key to inspiring a man to be close to you again. Actually allow yourself to be open and vulnerable.

This is the space that you will actually receive love from your man... and to do this requires that you actually take a step back so that a man can come towards you and start giving you his love and attention.

If you don't leave this space, you will keep filling the space, and he will not step forward.

That means you let go of the need to control what happens next and give him the chance to call, make plans with you, or initiate affection.

Learn the exact steps so he'll step forward how to cut through his resistance so he actually wants to come closer to you, naturally.

Specific words you can say if you sense he's pulling away so he suddenly craves you more.

The stuff men will never tell you about what they're thinking while dating you.

How to talk to him so you don't come across as needy.

One of my guest speakers, an expert in communicating with men, recommends "fooling" a man into thinking it's actually okay for him to withdraw. In fact, he advises that you actually encourage a man to take his space to regenerate by saying, "I'm here when you're ready."

When you back off like this, a man will firstly be caught off guard and pleasantly surprised, he probably hasn't had this happen with a woman before. Once he gets over this, he'll realize that he actually needs less time away from you, because you're not going to hold it against him.

To learn more tips like this you can use right away with any man you're with to instantly bring him closer to you and inspire that deep level of emotional attraction,

I'll guide you to understand men and work with how a man thinks and feels to create a great relationship...a relationship that will withstand the normal ups and downs.

You'll learn to recognize when a man is just "doing his thing", so you never again have to worry that you're driving him away. Instead, you'll learn exactly what it takes to support your man during his periods of "recovery" and what to do to keep his attraction for you strong.

I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. Best of luck in love and life!