Are Men Really Intimidated By Strong Women?

If your relationships with men seem to get harder over time, instead of closer, and even though you love each other, you find you start turning against one another instead of towards..... 

Then you need find out the truth about what will quickly stop this pattern of conflict and withdrawal and inspire your man to be a great partner to you again. 

Are you the kind of woman who doesn't "need" a man, but you're clear that you're ready to have the right man and the right relationship in your life?

Well, have you thought about whether or not you know what it takes to make a relationship with a man not only work, but thrive?

My best tips and secrets about what goes on in a man's mind and what inspires a man to become an amazingly devoted lover and partner with you.

I want you to tell me if you've noticed this funny and annoying thing about men. Have you noticed that men seem to go for women who don't have their act together, and who are "needy" and looking for a man for all the wrong reasons?

Like lots of other women, do you find that men don't recognize or appreciate you and great women from all the other ones out there who don't have their lives together?

It's enough to make you think that men really don't want a strong, independent, self-sufficient woman - even though they seem to say that's what they want.

Or is it that men just have awful taste in women? What's going on here?

If you're like lots of women I've met and talked to, then you've got your act together, you've got a great life of your own, and you want to meet a man and fall in love again.

But it seems like the more you do to be strong and stand on your own two feet, the less men act comfortable or interested in a serious relationship with you.

Men seem to be intimidated by strong women. Well, let me start by saying this:

Be strong. A great man is in no way intimidated by a strong, successful, powerful woman.

In fact, a great man is completely and undeniably turned on and intensely attracted to a powerful, radiant, confident, beautiful woman.

Now, if only being strong and powerful in our relationships, while still being open and loving was this simple... And this is where I've found a huge "disconnect" happens for too many amazing women.

You want a great guy, you're doing all the things to have a great life, but for some reason the right man either doesn't show up, or he seems put off by the fact that you don't "need" him and have your own life. 

If you can relate to any of this, I'm sure you're pretty frustrated with men and relationships. You know you're supposed to be happy without a man. But sometimes it seems like men both want and don't want you to need them.

Arggh! Here's something you should know - As strange and untrue as it might seem right now, the right man is not put off by you being independent and having your own life. Men do crave women who are strong, feminine and powerful. 

Women like this are very sexy to men. So then why do so many men act like they are intimated or put off by strong women?

The short answer is... When it comes to attraction, love and relationships, lots of strong, independent women accidentally stop making the space in their lives to be soft and vulnerable with a man.

And this lack of vulnerability isn't a small thing. Not being comfortable with being vulnerable becomes the root of this disconnect that keeps strong women from connecting with men and enjoying amazing deep and lasting relationships.

Because without being emotionally vulnerable, a man will never be drawn into connecting with you through his feelings.

And if you as a woman don't make a man stop being his same old self who's empty inside, and help him start to feel something incredible inside when he's with you that he's never felt before, then he's just not going to believe that you're the one for him.

Think about it for a second - Could it be true that you've stopped being that soft, easy to get to know, lovable woman you know a man can't resist, and instead you've started "armoring" or protecting yourself?

Or maybe you've even gotten so far away from your own emotions and the place of love inside you that it's going to be hard for a man to see this inside you?

If you're nodding your head right now thinking, "Oh no, that's me", then don't be too concerned.

It can be easy and natural to reconnect to that soft, loving, feminine place inside you that is what drives a man wild about you in the first place - even if you're already in a relationship that feels like your love is fading.

It can be easy when you know what it takes to shift out of that old way of being with men, and of feeling closed-off in relationships. The very best way I know of to help you or any woman quickly get back to that loving place inside will not only make you feel great inside and open you up...

But will also instantly attract the right man to you, or quickly recapture that special man in your life's attention.

Don't waste your time trying to avoid getting hurt. Don't clutter your mind with thoughts of "what if" about how your man is feeling.

And don't keep spending your energy trying to make your relationships work, when you're putting all your energy in the wrong place.

To get back on track with being the strong yet open and loveable woman your man won't be able to keep his hands off of, you need to turn-around your approach to men in your relationship now.

Do you know what happens when you haven't felt love in a long time, and you doubt that a man could ever really be the kind of partner you want?

I'll tell you. Not good things. When you worry about:

Getting hurt again .Losing yourself again in a relationship .Being shut out and unappreciated by a man Guess what this creates in lots of really sweet and loving women?

It creates a tough outer shell. And what does this shell do? It keeps men at arm's distance, even when the man wants to be there to love and support you.

This shell also makes getting close to you painful and difficult, as when a man tries to get past your tough shell, he's going to get hurt trying to get through.

And it's going to feel uncomfortable for you trying to open up and let him in. This is not the way to let love into your life and create the kind of relationship that can last and grow forever.

It will never work for you. And it will never allow the right man to get close to you, and then feel that your relationship is the incredible experience of love and growth that you both need it to be to make your love last. 

By the way, if you're with a man and you're afraid to open up and be more vulnerable with him...And you're having a tough time trusting him enough to truly let him in and know everything you are inside and out...

Your man is going to sense it. But most men at rate of (98%) won't know what's going on. They'll just know that it feels unusually hard and difficult to get close to you.

And they'll sense and see that whenever any "bump" or doubt comes up that you need to get through together, that you react in a way that pushes you both farther apart, instead of closer.

And ultimately, if you're with the right kind of man, he'll feel disappointed and drained by your relationship - instead of inspired.

You need to be loved and feel inspired by a man in a relationship, and it's also true that a man has to feel this way with you to be happy with you.

The question is... Are you bringing that open and loving woman to him in your relationship who is going to keep him inspired and giving of love even when he feels tired or withdrawn in his own mind?

Or are you closing off to him, pushing him away to try and protect yourself. and hoping that he'll see through it all and love you deeply enough to help you both get through it together.

Now that you're starting to see this more clearly, you have a choice. You can stay in the place that probably feels safe and comfortable of being tough and protecting yourself to make sure you don't get hurt again.

But you know where that road leads. Your other choice is to do what feels a lot less comfortable at first, but is going to give you what you really want from love and a relationship.

And that is to stop trying to protect yourself and let love in by letting your man get close to you to where you open up and depend on him emotionally.

This is the catch. So many strong women are so busy taking care of their own needs that they forget how important and necessary it is in love to allow others to be there for us, to where we can allow ourselves to need and want to receive from them.

How comfortable are you at being completely open and honest with your feelings with a man, and doing it in a way that makes it so that you could be hurt?

If you're not comfortable with this, and you've been keeping your feelings and your worries to yourself, then odds are you don't have much of anyone or anything to lean on or depend on for yourself.

In fact, it's probably you who everyone else leans and depends on. It's great to give, but it's time you learned to also receive.

Men feel an intense need and desire to give to the woman they love. And without this, most men will just never feel that connected to you. So you can either learn to open up and take the chance of letting a man be there, love you and give to you.

Or you can keep feeling drained by taking care of everything in your own life yourself, and caring for everyone else at the same time – while feeling like you don't get much back in return.

It's time to make a shift and break the pattern. and when you do, the man in your life will instantly notice and start giving and supporting you more.

I want to ask you to do something for me. I want you to get outside what you've been comfortable with till now as a woman when it comes to men and sharing what you feel, and what you want.

And I want you to take the chance of allowing a man to hear that you have needs and desires of your own that you want him to be the one to give to you, and share with him.

If you're ready to really learn how to share and start to receive more from men in relationships, it doesn't have to feel so scary.

In fact, even if you're in a relationship where you feel stuck in a rut and you're not getting much in the way of love or appreciation back from your man, making the shift to where your man can't help but want to give more love and support to you, and you are open to receiving it couldn't be easier.

All you have to do is to learn the important aspects for what the foundation base of a great relationship really is.

When you have this foundations in place, and you know the simple but powerful relationship skills that come along with them, getting what you want with a man and from your relationship is easy.

Your man makes it easy for you. On the other hand, when you don't have these required skills, and you don't have this foundation base in place in your relationship, then anything can come along and cast doubt and uncertainty on everything in your relationship.

It's time you got to enjoy what it feels like to have your needs met in a relationship.

And it's time you weren't the one to be looking out for everyone else's happiness, when meanwhile you don't feel fulfilled yourself.

As you know, for lots of us relationships are a lot of work. Get out of the cycle and the trap too many women are in of setting things up in your relationship to where it's tons of work and struggle just to try and connect with your man.

And instead start to find out what it's like when love and connection flows and grows stronger over time. I promise you I am going to show you the essential relationship skills that will have you getting what you want from your man, and build that solid relationships foundation base for you.

And if you're not 100% thrilled and ecstatic with the new relationship and love life you have after going through this blog post, then don't pay a thing.

I'm that confident that if you keep reading most of this blog post, can and will turn around your love life, even if you're in a relationship that feels stuck.

Stop trying to do it all yourself. Find out how to have a man ready, waiting, and excited to be the incredible partner you know you want and deserve in your love life.

And remember. It's your job to stay open to giving and receiving love. And it's also your job to get over the fear of what might go wrong, so when you're finally there in front of a great guy you don't mess things up for yourself because you don't know how to let him in into your heart and hold him there forever.

It's a man's job to meet you at this right place and take your love and relationship to the next level with you. If you're a strong, independent woman, then the irony is that it's often even harder for you to truly let down your guard and allow a man to get close to you.

Because you're used to taking care of yourself and doing everything on your own. It's time you made it easy for a man to love you again.

And it's time you allowed love to fill you and create the kind of connection with a man he'll never ever want to be without in his entire love life. If you've been finding that the more you want love, the more you seem to accidentally push good men away. then you need to follow my blog post to turn around your relationship for the sake of your life and love.

And let me know how things change for you. I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love.

Your Friend,

Dukentaxer

Find out what to do in each of these situations, and see if your specific relationship or dating is worth you think it should be.

Sadly, many women will go their entire lives without ever experiencing true love and connection with a man they care about. I don't want you to be one of them. This blog will show you exactly how to find the love you’ve been waiting your whole life to find and do it in a way that will make you feel good inside because you'll know that you're giving yourself and a man what you both Really want - an attractive, happy, and together woman. I personally guarantee it.

I will talk to you again soon. Keep on Dating There is someone out there for

everyone.Best of luck in life and love!

How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You and Give You The World!

When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying? "Why didn't he call?" "How can I find the right man?"Why do I always date losers?"Why doesn't he love me anymore? "What am I doing wrong?

"Why do some women have great relationships with men and mine are always dull, unfulfilling and boring? "If only I could understand men...." 

The secret to understanding men and using it to your advantage is as follows.The important thing to remember is that you're not alone. Most women whether single or married have asked themselves these kinds of questions. The reason women have these concerns is because they simply don't understand men. 

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you and want to fulfill your every desire? 

Yes, it's true! And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself and not shaping yourself into someone you're not just to keep your man interested. I'll give you solid proof of this in a moment and use that understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and become a woman that a man loves, cherishes, and never want to part with. 

I will talk to ya again soon. 

Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 

Best of luck in love and life!

How to Be the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave

Have you ever met the kind of woman,that men fall hopelessly in love with,women with whom men want to spend all their time
whom men want to please and do anything for  who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man; and  to whom men want to give everything?

What special quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to spend their lives with her?

The startling observation I've made:These women are not necessarily the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!
 
These kinds of women know the secret to creating magic with men.And how to use their five senses and how and where to apply them effectively including the sixth one of cause common sense(which is not common to all women in this case). And here's the good news for you  if you're like most women who struggle with relationship challenges. The ability to create magic with men is not really magic at all. It’s a skill which can be learned by any woman  and that includes you!

 
I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Why Do Most Women Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?

There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her heart desires.

The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their girlfriends, who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out; and they read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.

If you're like most women, you probably love talking to your girlfriends about your relationship troubles, and -- yikes! -- asking them for relationship advice. Unless your girlfriend happens to be a professional relationship advisor, who has counseled many couples towards successful relationships -- and unless she herself has a successful relationship with a man (very important!) -- it's unwise to take relationship advice from your girlfriend (or your mother, sister, cousin or aunt, for that matter).

By all means, seek the listening ear of a girlfriend if you simply want to unburden -- and if talking to your girlfriend makes you feel better. But always remember that talking to your girlfriends (as depicted accurately in the once-popular Sex and the City TV series),or(in Desperate House Wives) fosters deeper and better friendships with your girlfriends -- but does nothing to improve your relationships with men.

Now, don't get me wrong. Some of your girlfriends might indeed have the wisdom to give you good advice -- but that advice will almost always be based only on their own limited experience and observation. Just because your girlfriend has had an experience similar to yours doesn't mean her advice applies to your situation.

I chuckle every time I remember the story of a woman who spent hours on the phone with her girlfriend discussing why her boyfriend was giving her the silent treatment, and what she might have done to provoke it, and what she could do to get him talking again. All the while, her boyfriend was just not in a talkative mood because he was worrying that the carburetor in his car wasn't working right!

 
I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Everything You Ever Learned About How to Attract and Keep a Man is Wrong!

There's another insidious thing masquerading as relationship advice for women and that is, women's magazines. Women's magazines teach women how to look, be and act around men and only serve to impress other women, propagate poor self-image, and show women how to "hook" a man by being everything but themselves. 

Sadly, most of the relationship tips that women's magazines give were written by women for women and they don't enable women to understand men at all.

What if I told you that you could make a man adore you just by being yourself?

Yes, you don't have to be anything but yourself. There's just one condition. You also have to understand what a man wants.

I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Will Giving a Man What He Wants Get You What You Want?

Here's the big secret. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.

Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good. Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or cooking him sumptuous meals "better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick  and their man would stay devoted to them forever.

That's an outdated mode of thinking derived from the old wives' tale that says "The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach"  or his crotch, in most instances. If that were true, then sex therapists, prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't they?  There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye.
 
Seduction is sure mental sorcery:While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by men, seduction is sure mental sorcery.
 
So how much is all this worth to you?If you're a single woman, what is the value of becoming totally irresistible to men, attracting the man of your dreams, making him fall in love with you, marry you and give you everything your heart desires?

If you're a married woman, how would your life improve when you reignite the spark in your marriage, make your husband fall in love with you all over again, enjoy deeper intimacy with him, and have an enduring marriage?

What is the value of not wasting any more time trying to figure men out, and read them like a book instead or having the ability to easily diffuse quarrels, arguments, and other relationship troubles as they occur, and be able to effortlessly influence your man to your way of thinking?

What price can you put on learning to become a woman that men adore and never want to leave?

 
I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone.
Best of luck in love and life!

Why Men Withdraw from Relationships After Honeymoon?

When someone we care about rejects our efforts to become closer to them, it’s not a fun feeling.But an even worse feeling than that is not knowing why? You meet a guy. You go out. It's clear that you like each other, and you begin to open up more and more. Then, out of nowhere, he withdraws. Sound familiar?

Does this scenario sound familiar? You meet a guy. You go out. It’s clear that you like each other, and you begin to open up more and more. Things get increasingly serious, and you make yourself emotionally vulnerable.

You feel like the relationship is progressing. Then, out of nowhere, he withdraws. You can feel it in the way he treats you, in the length of time it takes him to return your calls, in the excuses he’s using, in the difference in his touch. He’s withdrawing.

Pretty soon, you find yourself unsure about how to respond. You want more from the relationship, but you’re nervous about asking for it, because you don’t want to push him even further away, making him withdraw even more. You’re not alone. This is an old story that many people--both men and women--have been through.

There are any number of reasons why a man withdraws, and most of these can be categorized under three main headings. Let’s talk about these reasons a man pulls away, and how you can respond if he does. 

 He’s Lost Interest

This is pretty much the worst-case scenario for your relationship: when your man withdraws because he’s become disenchanted with how things are going between you two. Maybe he’s found some fundamental incompatibilities between you, or maybe he’s simply decided that you aren’t exactly what he’s looking for. He might have even met someone else who has captured his interest.

Whatever the specific reason, if your man is withdrawing because he’s doubting the future of your relationship, you probably ought to begin to face the fact that this may not be your one, true, love. We’re not saying it’s impossible for a guy to overcome his doubts about you or the relationship once they crop up. But usually, once those doubts become so strong that it makes him pull away and become distant, it’s often too late to salvage something strong and long-lasting.
 
He feels Rushed

This scenario isn’t nearly as bad as the first one. Yes, it has the potential to doom the relationship. But there are steps you can take to turn things around.

Your man may be withdrawing because he feels like you’re pressuring him to move the relationship along more quickly than he’s comfortable with. If this is the case, there’s a clear and obvious step you need to take: back off. Give him space, and allow things to progress at a speed that’s more comfortable for him. You might even think about directly communicating with him, and explaining that you didn’t mean to put pressure on him, and that you’re happy to allow things to progress more slowly. Offering space won’t always turn things around, but it often will.

We know it’s hard, when you really like someone, to pull back instead of rushing forward with everything you feel in your heart. But if your man is withdrawing because he’s feeling rushed, then you have to let things calm down and create the opportunity for the relationship to develop at a pace that feels good for both of you. (And keep in mind, playing hard-to-get is a tried and true strategy that’s been effective for centuries!)

He’s afraid of commitment

This third reason a man withdraws is likely the most hopeful one for you. Your man may be withdrawing based on fear. Maybe he’s been hurt in the past. Or maybe the idea of commitment simply petrifies him.

The good news is that whatever fear is motivating your significant other to pull away from you, it can often be overcome. If you two can discuss whatever the issue is and begin to deal with it, there’s a good chance that you can then begin to create something real and lasting together.

Yes, there’s a chance that he’s simply unwilling – or unable – at this point to move forward towards a committed relationship. But often, fears crop up in a relationship because a person wants to deal with those doubts and move past them. 

If you can be a steady, reassuring partner that isn’t pushing too hard, while he deals with what’s scaring him, you two just might build a foundation together that will lead to years and years of happiness.

I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on Dating!  
There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!