Thursday, September 30, 2010

How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You and Give You The World!

When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying? "Why didn't he call?" "How can I find the right man?"Why do I always date losers?"Why doesn't he love me anymore? "What am I doing wrong?

"Why do some women have great relationships with men and mine are always dull, unfulfilling and boring? "If only I could understand men...."

The secret to understanding men  and using it to your advantage
is as follows.The important thing to remember is that you're not alone. Most women whether single or married have asked themselves these kinds of questions. The reason women have these concerns is because they simply don't understand men.

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you and want to fulfill your every desire?

Yes, it's true! And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself and not shaping yourself into someone you're not just to keep your man interested. I'll give you solid proof of this in a moment and use that understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and become a woman that a man loves, cherishes, and never want to part with.

I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

How to Be the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave

Have you ever met the kind of woman,that men fall hopelessly in love with,women with whom men want to spend all their time
whom men want to please and do anything for  who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man; and  to whom men want to give everything?

What special quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to spend their lives with her?

The startling observation I've made:These women are not necessarily the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!


These kinds of women know the secret to creating magic with men.And how to use their five senses and how and where to apply them effectively including the sixth one of cause common sense(which is not common to all women in this case). And here's the good news for you  if you're like most women who struggle with relationship challenges. The ability to create magic with men is not really magic at all. It’s a skill which can be learned by any woman  and that includes you!


I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Why Do Most Women Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?

There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her heart desires.

The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their girlfriends, who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out; and they read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.

If you're like most women, you probably love talking to your girlfriends about your relationship troubles, and -- yikes! -- asking them for relationship advice. Unless your girlfriend happens to be a professional relationship advisor, who has counseled many couples towards successful relationships -- and unless she herself has a successful relationship with a man (very important!) -- it's unwise to take relationship advice from your girlfriend (or your mother, sister, cousin or aunt, for that matter).

By all means, seek the listening ear of a girlfriend if you simply want to unburden -- and if talking to your girlfriend makes you feel better. But always remember that talking to your girlfriends (as depicted accurately in the once-popular Sex and the City TV series),or(in Desperate House Wives) fosters deeper and better friendships with your girlfriends -- but does nothing to improve your relationships with men.

Now, don't get me wrong. Some of your girlfriends might indeed have the wisdom to give you good advice -- but that advice will almost always be based only on their own limited experience and observation. Just because your girlfriend has had an experience similar to yours doesn't mean her advice applies to your situation.

I chuckle every time I remember the story of a woman who spent hours on the phone with her girlfriend discussing why her boyfriend was giving her the silent treatment, and what she might have done to provoke it, and what she could do to get him talking again. All the while, her boyfriend was just not in a talkative mood because he was worrying that the carburetor in his car wasn't working right!


I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Everything You Ever Learned About How to Attract and Keep a Man is Wrong!

There's another insidious thing masquerading as relationship advice for women and that is, women's magazines. Women's magazines teach women how to look, be and act around men and only serve to impress other women, propagate poor self-image, and show women how to "hook" a man by being everything but themselves. 

Sadly, most of the relationship tips that women's magazines give were written by women for women and they don't enable women to understand men at all.

What if I told you that you could make a man adore you just by being yourself?

Yes, you don't have to be anything but yourself. There's just one condition. You also have to understand what a man wants.

I will talk to ya again soon.
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Will Giving a Man What He Wants Get You What You Want?

Here's the big secret. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the woman who can make him feel good.

Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good. Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or cooking him sumptuous meals "better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick  and their man would stay devoted to them forever.

That's an outdated mode of thinking derived from the old wives' tale that says "The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach"  or his crotch, in most instances. If that were true, then sex therapists, prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't they?
  There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye.

Seduction is sure mental sorcery:While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by men, seduction is sure mental sorcery.

So how much is all this worth to you?If you're a single woman, what is the value of becoming totally irresistible to men, attracting the man of your dreams, making him fall in love with you, marry you and give you everything your heart desires?

If you're a married woman, how would your life improve when you reignite the spark in your marriage, make your husband fall in love with you all over again, enjoy deeper intimacy with him, and have an enduring marriage?

What is the value of not wasting any more time trying to figure men out, and read them like a book instead or having the ability to easily diffuse quarrels, arguments, and other relationship troubles as they occur, and be able to effortlessly influence your man to your way of thinking?

What price can you put on learning to become a woman that men adore and never want to leave?


I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone.
Best of luck in love and life!

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Why Men Withdraw from Relationships After Honeymoon?

When someone we care about rejects our efforts to become closer to them, it’s not a fun feeling.But an even worse feeling than that is not knowing why? You meet a guy. You go out. It's clear that you like each other, and you begin to open up more and more. Then, out of nowhere, he withdraws. Sound familiar?

Does this scenario sound familiar? You meet a guy. You go out. It’s clear that you like each other, and you begin to open up more and more. Things get increasingly serious, and you make yourself emotionally vulnerable.

You feel like the relationship is progressing. Then, out of nowhere, he withdraws. You can feel it in the way he treats you, in the length of time it takes him to return your calls, in the excuses he’s using, in the difference in his touch. He’s withdrawing.

Pretty soon, you find yourself unsure about how to respond. You want more from the relationship, but you’re nervous about asking for it, because you don’t want to push him even further away, making him withdraw even more. You’re not alone. This is an old story that many people--both men and women--have been through.

There are any number of reasons why a man withdraws, and most of these can be categorized under three main headings. Let’s talk about these reasons a man pulls away, and how you can respond if he does. 

 He’s Lost Interest

This is pretty much the worst-case scenario for your relationship: when your man withdraws because he’s become disenchanted with how things are going between you two. Maybe he’s found some fundamental incompatibilities between you, or maybe he’s simply decided that you aren’t exactly what he’s looking for. He might have even met someone else who has captured his interest.

Whatever the specific reason, if your man is withdrawing because he’s doubting the future of your relationship, you probably ought to begin to face the fact that this may not be your one, true, love. We’re not saying it’s impossible for a guy to overcome his doubts about you or the relationship once they crop up. But usually, once those doubts become so strong that it makes him pull away and become distant, it’s often too late to salvage something strong and long-lasting.

He feels Rushed

This scenario isn’t nearly as bad as the first one. Yes, it has the potential to doom the relationship. But there are steps you can take to turn things around.

Your man may be withdrawing because he feels like you’re pressuring him to move the relationship along more quickly than he’s comfortable with. If this is the case, there’s a clear and obvious step you need to take: back off. Give him space, and allow things to progress at a speed that’s more comfortable for him. You might even think about directly communicating with him, and explaining that you didn’t mean to put pressure on him, and that you’re happy to allow things to progress more slowly. Offering space won’t always turn things around, but it often will.

We know it’s hard, when you really like someone, to pull back instead of rushing forward with everything you feel in your heart. But if your man is withdrawing because he’s feeling rushed, then you have to let things calm down and create the opportunity for the relationship to develop at a pace that feels good for both of you. (And keep in mind, playing hard-to-get is a tried and true strategy that’s been effective for centuries!)

He’s afraid of commitment

This third reason a man withdraws is likely the most hopeful one for you. Your man may be withdrawing based on fear. Maybe he’s been hurt in the past. Or maybe the idea of commitment simply petrifies him.

The good news is that whatever fear is motivating your significant other to pull away from you, it can often be overcome. If you two can discuss whatever the issue is and begin to deal with it, there’s a good chance that you can then begin to create something real and lasting together.

Yes, there’s a chance that he’s simply unwilling – or unable – at this point to move forward towards a committed relationship. But often, fears crop up in a relationship because a person wants to deal with those doubts and move past them. 

If you can be a steady, reassuring partner that isn’t pushing too hard, while he deals with what’s scaring him, you two just might build a foundation together that will lead to years and years of happiness.

I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on Dating!
There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Why Men Pull Away After First Date With You?

Why Men Pull Away After First Date With You but move on with others in relationship?

It's a frustrating idea for many women, but you've seen it happen time and again. A man meets a woman, and they start dating. The relationship grows deeper fairly quickly until it culminates in the bedroom.

But just as everything seems to be going incredibly well, the man abruptly starts being distant as soon as the woman discusses getting into a deeper relationship. 

The relationship then dwindles into nothingness, leaving the woman feeling bitter and betrayed. Have you ever slept with a great man, only to watch him pull away once you start talking about deeper emotions? You may be tempted to think that all men simply have only one thing on their minds when it comes to dating.

Well, it's hardly that simple - the way men think can be just as complex as yours. The big differences lie in men's different approach to love and how they view it.

#1). Men are in the dating scene for the challenge. There's a reason why men are so fond of vigorous sports, violent movies, and fast-paced video games - they like the thrill of being faced with a challenge, of rising to the occasion, of overcoming the odds, and finally revel in the joy of victory.

It doesn't matter if the victory is lonesome or quiet or strange - the feeling of accomplishment reinforces the notion that he is, in fact, a winner.

So when it comes to dating, men are out to look for a challenge - they're looking to rock a woman's world. And at the same time, they want their women to be completely taken by their "manliness."

I know what you're thinking - if this is what men want after all, then why do they seem to not want it anymore once you've completely fallen for him, even to the point that you've consented to have sex with him?

#2). Men love the chase. When you start to show him that you're virtually all about him, it gives him the idea that he's already won you over. The victory is his. The challenge is over. The chase is finished.

So what's a man to do? He'll feel the need to find another challenge to pursue. And if you talk to him about committing to a more serious relationship, you're effectively asking him to give up looking for challenges - and that idea scares him to death. That is why men pull away after sleeping with you.Now here's the good news.

#3). My third point is that you can control him. Men love the chase because they like feeling the attraction to a woman. Just as he'd like to rock your world, he'd appreciate it just as much if you rocked his. That's what keeps men from pulling away - if he finds himself attracted to you, you can bet he'll stick around for much, much longer.

So how can you do this?To keep it simple, don't give yourself to him too quickly. By that, I mean don't sleep with him so early in the relationship. Use the time to make him feel attracted to you, because it's precisely this attraction that triggers his emotional desire to win you and be with you for a longer term.

If you can't make a man feel attracted to you, then no amount of talking, begging, or sex will change his mind.


I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on Dating!
There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!