How To Make Man Who Acted Cold to Act Hot Again

Ok, so now that you know what not to do when a man goes cold, here's how to handle the situation the next time it happens and inspire the right guy to "recover."

1. Center yourself and get clear on your wants

What you need to do first, before you do anything else, is get clear about what you want and expect from your love life.

You need to be honest with yourself first before you can be honest with anyone else in your life. Stop pretending you only want a casual, fun fling when what you really want is to have a committed, serious relationship that's going somewhere.

Here's the thing: Getting clear about what you want will help guide your mind in all kinds of positive directions to help you find and attract the right situations and people in your life.

Accepting a situation that is anything other than what you truly want will not only make you unhappy, it will keep you tied to a man who's not right for you. So really ask yourself what kind of relationship you want before you become involved with a man and the chemistry starts to cloud your vision.

2. Communicate clearly

Let me tell you something important that you might have gotten mixed up as a woman in relationships with men who wouldn't listen...

It's ok to want what you want and to let a man know it. In fact, it's a must. And it's ok to tell a man that his behavior doesn't match with what you want.

The amazing thing is that men crave honest women who are up front about who they are and what they want in relationships... in a way that says that she's not too attached to the immediate outcome and subtly lets him know that he better have his act together, or else.

Suppose you're with a man who has a wandering eye or wants an "open relationship", and that's not what you want. You can say, "You have every right to be with any woman you want, just not when you're with me."

That's not an ultimatum or a threat. It's a simple, clear statement about your wishes that also respects his right to choose. When faced with open communication like that, a mature man will respect a woman and realize that he's dealing with an equal.

This in itself will go far in triggering the deep level of emotional attraction I talked about earlier. What's more, once you become vulnerable like this and state your truth, your respect for yourself will also increase, and with it your self-esteem. You'll not only move closer to the relationship you want, but you'll weed out the guys who can't give you that in the process.

3. Create the space

This is the critical key to inspiring a man to be close to you again. Actually allow yourself to be open and vulnerable.

This is the space that you will actually receive love from your man... and to do this requires that you actually take a step back so that a man can come towards you and start giving you his love and attention.

If you don't leave this space, you will keep filling the space, and he will not step forward.

That means you let go of the need to control what happens next and give him the chance to call, make plans with you, or initiate affection.

Learn the exact steps so he'll step forward how to cut through his resistance so he actually wants to come closer to you, naturally.

Specific words you can say if you sense he's pulling away so he suddenly craves you more.

The stuff men will never tell you about what they're thinking while dating you.

How to talk to him so you don't come across as needy.

One of my guest speakers, an expert in communicating with men, recommends "fooling" a man into thinking it's actually okay for him to withdraw. In fact, he advises that you actually encourage a man to take his space to regenerate by saying, "I'm here when you're ready."

When you back off like this, a man will firstly be caught off guard and pleasantly surprised, he probably hasn't had this happen with a woman before. Once he gets over this, he'll realize that he actually needs less time away from you, because you're not going to hold it against him.

To learn more tips like this you can use right away with any man you're with to instantly bring him closer to you and inspire that deep level of emotional attraction,

I'll guide you to understand men and work with how a man thinks and feels to create a great relationship...a relationship that will withstand the normal ups and downs.

You'll learn to recognize when a man is just "doing his thing", so you never again have to worry that you're driving him away. Instead, you'll learn exactly what it takes to support your man during his periods of "recovery" and what to do to keep his attraction for you strong.

I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. Best of luck in love and life!

Why Men Act Hot and Cold With Women

His withdrawing is the beginning of the end... unless you know how to pull him back

You know how it is...a man will seem really excited to be with you, he'll ask you out, maybe even bring you flowers, call all the time, and then...something shifts and he pulls back.

He stops making plans like he used to, and you start to feel like you did something wrong or that he doesn't like you as much anymore.

Wouldn't it be great to know for sure that your man was going to take you in his arms and let you know without a doubt that he wants you and only you?

Wouldn't it be amazing never to have to worry again that he is losing interest when he becomes distant or that you've done something wrong?

It's entirely possible when you understand the reasons a man has for acting distant and what to do about it when he does...

The good news: withdrawing is natural

Here's an insight about men that's fascinating and strange and that, once you understand it, is going to stop a lot of the pain and frustration you experience with dating and relationships.

When a man gets truly close to a woman and deeply intimate for any extended period of time, he loves that feeling and wants more of it. But the strange part of this is that the moment a man experiences this period of intense closeness, he will take some space for himself.

I know this sounds counter-intuitive, but it's how most men work emotionally. Most men will actually seek some amount of space to "recover." It's kind of like how after a muscle gets worked out it needs to rest before it can grow stronger and be active again.

Men can become distant even in good relationships, and if you know what to do, you can keep your guy physically and emotionally engaged... even when he needs time to recover.

And there's another reason why a man might withdraw that has nothing whatsoever to do with you: He's not living his "purpose".

The importance of purpose for a man; It's important for a man to be clear about what he's doing in his own life and what his purpose is.

A man's purpose can be anything from something straightforward like excelling at work or building his own company, to something more creative like starting and working at a do-it-yourself project at home or training at his favorite sport.

The point is that a man has some goals and is engaged and focused on doing something and doing it well.

A man's purpose is essential to his overall emotional and social well-being. But often times, even men themselves aren't clear on what their purpose is, or don't really go after their purpose and assert themselves.

How his purpose (or lack of) can affect you when a man isn't going after his own purpose, or has fallen away from it or forgotten about it, it often gets in the way of the relationship he's in. Men become withdrawn, restless, irritated and seem generally unengaged in life as a whole.

They stop initiating plans. They stop spending as much time with people, even their own friends. They shut the world out. And of course, they become emotionally withdrawn and distant as well.

Too often men aren't conscious that this is what's happening to them, and they end up pulling away from their relationship and making things even worse for themselves. This is when they often seem to go in and out of being present and engaged in the relationship, and then completely withdrawn.

They slide between the two largely because of the way that they're feeling about themselves or how things are going for them in the world as it relates to their purpose. And often women take on the problems the man is going through and try and help, or even mistake his behavior to mean something about his feelings about them or the relationship.

So, now that you know that a man's withdrawing is not automatically your fault, what can you do about it?

What doesn't work with a man? 

There are certain behaviors and approaches women often take when their man starts withdrawing, and they usually work against you. Let's get those out of the way so you know what not to do...

Approach #1: Convincing Him

When you're with a man who is feeling or acting uncertain with you, trying to convince him otherwise puts you in a very dangerous and weak position for your relationship, even if you give him an ultimatum that would move things ahead to the place in your relationship that you want.

Why? Because he's not really making that decision based on what he wants or feels.

What you really want and need is a man who is truly committed to being with you on a physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual level. Not coerced, not forced, not convinced.

Approach #2: Over Sharing Your Feelings

If you're like most women, then you think sharing your feelings with a man first, and often, will somehow get him to share his feelings in return.

But this isn't how it works for a man. You can share your feelings with a man, but to expect that this will encourage him to do the same with you will only lead you to unnecessary frustration, especially if a man is already acting withdrawn.

When a man acts withdrawn, that's a signal that he is undergoing his own emotional process and needs time to recharge. Once he's ready to share his feelings, he'll be back. But trying to stimulate him to do so by becoming overly emotional won't work.

Approach #3: Setting Unrealistic Expectations

Women tend to think that if things are going well with a guy, that he will naturally want to move things forward to the next level. They'll just assume this even when the guy has never talked about the future.

So you know what happens next. Things will be coasting along, and suddenly the guy will change gears, she'll find out he's dating other women, or he doesn't make plans with her every weekend, and she's left wondering what the heck happened.

The answer is that the woman created all these expectations about what the relationship was supposed to look like and how he was supposed to behave, and when he fell short of that, she became disappointed and unfulfilled. This usually winds up in a confrontation that causes tension and maybe even creates more distance.

The flip side of this is that a woman will try to pretend she's okay with just a casual relationship, gets closer to him thinking he'll "come around," and then become disappointed when he doesn't.

Approach #4: Having "The Talk"

As an independent, thinking woman who is used to getting out there and getting what she wants in her career and the rest of her life, it might seem like laying your cards on the table and having a talk with a man about "where the relationship is going" is the sensible, adult way to move things forward.

You might think that if you give him all your reasons for why you two are perfect for each other, like you'd do in a job interview, it will make him open his eyes and realize he'd be a fool to have things any other way.

But think about this: Do men truly commit and choose to love and become loyal, caring, affectionate, etc. just because a woman asks them?

No. A man needs to have his own reasons for being and feeling this way, and this happens when he feels a deep emotional attraction for you.

Keep reading to get the inside scoop on how the commitment process works for a man, his reasons for committing, and how to transition to a deeply committed relationship in an easy and effortless way. I'll help you discover how to help a man get in touch with those hidden feelings inside him that will have him begging you for a commitment. No drama, no tears, and no convincing that he needs to "go there" with you.

I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. Best of luck in love and life!

The top Qualities that Make Man Unable to Resist Woman

You have the power to make your luck in love. I hope you feel excited and committed to creating the love life you've always wanted, and completely deserve.

I hope you are committed to taking the steps necessary to understand the patterns of your past, so you can create a new, more successful relationship in the future.

But enough of what you are going to learn, let's kick this relationship off with some insight into exactly what makes a man emotionally attracted to a woman.

There are six critical elements you must understand when it comes to love and a relationship with a man.

They are:

• Attraction
• Commitment
• Sex
• Love
• Communication
• Boundaries

But the step that has to come first, the element that rules all other elements... is attraction. And here's the crucial question... How do you trigger that attraction so it lasts?

There's a certain "code" that men use when it comes to describing a woman they crave and want to get to know on a deeper level... I call her "the cool girl."

The "cool girl" isn't about wearing the latest designer fashions, or knowing the hippest night spots, or having the most Facebook friends.

The "cool girl" is guy-speak for the kind of woman who is attractive to men in a way that even they can't explain or often aren't aware of. It's a way of being that triggers unconscious, but totally all-encompassing, attraction in men. 

In other words, "cool girl" = "relationship material."

Here are "Cool Girl" qualities... and how to live them

A cool girl has a certain "positive emotional energy" that men can relate to. She might not necessarily be the most physically attractive woman in the room, but there's just something about her that men find irresistible.

That "something" are rules that cool girls live by. And they are things you can start doing... today... to change how a man feels about and responds to you.

1. Cool girl rule # 1: Be positive

When you bring funny, positive thoughts and feelings to situations, you create an experience that men will want to have again and again.

That's because a cool girl understands that instead of complaining about little, insignificant details like the food, the temperature, or the state of the trash, which will make him feel unappreciated and disinterested...you can have a good time and celebrate the fun and excitement you are feeling with him, creating a foundation of positive experiences. This is the fastest way to make him connect with you and want more of you in his life, not less.

2. Cool girl rule #2: Go with the flow... most of the time

It's important that you show enough flexibility and spontaneity to go with the flow when it comes to social things. This makes a man feel he can make you happy - and for men, making a woman feel happy is how he feels good about himself.

Men, especially those with high-powered, stressful careers, don't want more stress from the woman in their lives. They want to come home to a woman who can be flexible about plans instead of rigid or set in her ways.

However, they also respect a woman who has boundaries and says clearly what is not okay with her. You don't want to be a doormat, or seem like a person who needs his approval. You are a confident, fun-loving, "cool" woman who can kick up her heels and have a good time, but also knows her mind and loves to share it.

3. Cool girl rule #3: Have options

Cool girls are interesting women who have lots of options, interests, hobbies or friends that make them happy.

Cool girls do not put all their happiness in what a man does or says. They make their own happiness, and therefore a man doesn't feel obligated to spend time with her or include her... he wants to.

4. Cool girl rule #4: Don't force

Cool girls prefer that a man makes up his own mind; they don't try to make a man do something.

If a man feels coerced or nagged or cornered into doing something, he will resent you. He won't feel respected and will feel misunderstood. But he won't tell you that. He'll just withdraw so he won't be forced to do things he doesn't want to do.

Instead of forcing him, let him know how happy he will make you if he does something, and then step back. He'll feel like you trust him and in turn will want to make you happy.

5. Cool girl rule #5: Love yourself

A cool girl knows that the way she feels and talks about herself is how a man will feel about her.

When a woman talks negatively about herself, whether it's her weight, her intelligence or her life in general, that's how a man will see her. If she is looking to him for her worth and self-love, he's not going to be interested. He'll see her as needy and not as someone he wants to commit to. But if she loves herself inside and out, he will love her and want to worship her forever.

Starting to get a clearer picture about the kind of woman a man can't help but want to be around and get to know better the kind of woman he sees as a long-term prospect rather than a friend or a casual fling?

Good. I've got much more to tell you about the kind of woman a great guy is attracted to - along with the other five elements you need to understand in order to have a great relationship.

I will talk to ya again soon. Keep on dating! There is someone out there for everyone. Best of luck in love and life!

Are Men Really Intimidated By Strong Women?

If your relationships with men seem to get harder over time, instead of closer, and even though you love each other, you find you start turning against one another instead of towards..... 

Then you need find out the truth about what will quickly stop this pattern of conflict and withdrawal and inspire your man to be a great partner to you again. 

Are you the kind of woman who doesn't "need" a man, but you're clear that you're ready to have the right man and the right relationship in your life?

Well, have you thought about whether or not you know what it takes to make a relationship with a man not only work, but thrive?

My best tips and secrets about what goes on in a man's mind and what inspires a man to become an amazingly devoted lover and partner with you.

I want you to tell me if you've noticed this funny and annoying thing about men. Have you noticed that men seem to go for women who don't have their act together, and who are "needy" and looking for a man for all the wrong reasons?

Like lots of other women, do you find that men don't recognize or appreciate you and great women from all the other ones out there who don't have their lives together?

It's enough to make you think that men really don't want a strong, independent, self-sufficient woman - even though they seem to say that's what they want.

Or is it that men just have awful taste in women? What's going on here?

If you're like lots of women I've met and talked to, then you've got your act together, you've got a great life of your own, and you want to meet a man and fall in love again.

But it seems like the more you do to be strong and stand on your own two feet, the less men act comfortable or interested in a serious relationship with you.

Men seem to be intimidated by strong women. Well, let me start by saying this:

Be strong. A great man is in no way intimidated by a strong, successful, powerful woman.

In fact, a great man is completely and undeniably turned on and intensely attracted to a powerful, radiant, confident, beautiful woman.

Now, if only being strong and powerful in our relationships, while still being open and loving was this simple... And this is where I've found a huge "disconnect" happens for too many amazing women.

You want a great guy, you're doing all the things to have a great life, but for some reason the right man either doesn't show up, or he seems put off by the fact that you don't "need" him and have your own life. 

If you can relate to any of this, I'm sure you're pretty frustrated with men and relationships. You know you're supposed to be happy without a man. But sometimes it seems like men both want and don't want you to need them.

Arggh! Here's something you should know - As strange and untrue as it might seem right now, the right man is not put off by you being independent and having your own life. Men do crave women who are strong, feminine and powerful. 

Women like this are very sexy to men. So then why do so many men act like they are intimated or put off by strong women?

The short answer is... When it comes to attraction, love and relationships, lots of strong, independent women accidentally stop making the space in their lives to be soft and vulnerable with a man.

And this lack of vulnerability isn't a small thing. Not being comfortable with being vulnerable becomes the root of this disconnect that keeps strong women from connecting with men and enjoying amazing deep and lasting relationships.

Because without being emotionally vulnerable, a man will never be drawn into connecting with you through his feelings.

And if you as a woman don't make a man stop being his same old self who's empty inside, and help him start to feel something incredible inside when he's with you that he's never felt before, then he's just not going to believe that you're the one for him.

Think about it for a second - Could it be true that you've stopped being that soft, easy to get to know, lovable woman you know a man can't resist, and instead you've started "armoring" or protecting yourself?

Or maybe you've even gotten so far away from your own emotions and the place of love inside you that it's going to be hard for a man to see this inside you?

If you're nodding your head right now thinking, "Oh no, that's me", then don't be too concerned.

It can be easy and natural to reconnect to that soft, loving, feminine place inside you that is what drives a man wild about you in the first place - even if you're already in a relationship that feels like your love is fading.

It can be easy when you know what it takes to shift out of that old way of being with men, and of feeling closed-off in relationships. The very best way I know of to help you or any woman quickly get back to that loving place inside will not only make you feel great inside and open you up...

But will also instantly attract the right man to you, or quickly recapture that special man in your life's attention.

Don't waste your time trying to avoid getting hurt. Don't clutter your mind with thoughts of "what if" about how your man is feeling.

And don't keep spending your energy trying to make your relationships work, when you're putting all your energy in the wrong place.

To get back on track with being the strong yet open and loveable woman your man won't be able to keep his hands off of, you need to turn-around your approach to men in your relationship now.

Do you know what happens when you haven't felt love in a long time, and you doubt that a man could ever really be the kind of partner you want?

I'll tell you. Not good things. When you worry about:

Getting hurt again .Losing yourself again in a relationship .Being shut out and unappreciated by a man Guess what this creates in lots of really sweet and loving women?

It creates a tough outer shell. And what does this shell do? It keeps men at arm's distance, even when the man wants to be there to love and support you.

This shell also makes getting close to you painful and difficult, as when a man tries to get past your tough shell, he's going to get hurt trying to get through.

And it's going to feel uncomfortable for you trying to open up and let him in. This is not the way to let love into your life and create the kind of relationship that can last and grow forever.

It will never work for you. And it will never allow the right man to get close to you, and then feel that your relationship is the incredible experience of love and growth that you both need it to be to make your love last. 

By the way, if you're with a man and you're afraid to open up and be more vulnerable with him...And you're having a tough time trusting him enough to truly let him in and know everything you are inside and out...

Your man is going to sense it. But most men at rate of (98%) won't know what's going on. They'll just know that it feels unusually hard and difficult to get close to you.

And they'll sense and see that whenever any "bump" or doubt comes up that you need to get through together, that you react in a way that pushes you both farther apart, instead of closer.

And ultimately, if you're with the right kind of man, he'll feel disappointed and drained by your relationship - instead of inspired.

You need to be loved and feel inspired by a man in a relationship, and it's also true that a man has to feel this way with you to be happy with you.

The question is... Are you bringing that open and loving woman to him in your relationship who is going to keep him inspired and giving of love even when he feels tired or withdrawn in his own mind?

Or are you closing off to him, pushing him away to try and protect yourself. and hoping that he'll see through it all and love you deeply enough to help you both get through it together.

Now that you're starting to see this more clearly, you have a choice. You can stay in the place that probably feels safe and comfortable of being tough and protecting yourself to make sure you don't get hurt again.

But you know where that road leads. Your other choice is to do what feels a lot less comfortable at first, but is going to give you what you really want from love and a relationship.

And that is to stop trying to protect yourself and let love in by letting your man get close to you to where you open up and depend on him emotionally.

This is the catch. So many strong women are so busy taking care of their own needs that they forget how important and necessary it is in love to allow others to be there for us, to where we can allow ourselves to need and want to receive from them.

How comfortable are you at being completely open and honest with your feelings with a man, and doing it in a way that makes it so that you could be hurt?

If you're not comfortable with this, and you've been keeping your feelings and your worries to yourself, then odds are you don't have much of anyone or anything to lean on or depend on for yourself.

In fact, it's probably you who everyone else leans and depends on. It's great to give, but it's time you learned to also receive.

Men feel an intense need and desire to give to the woman they love. And without this, most men will just never feel that connected to you. So you can either learn to open up and take the chance of letting a man be there, love you and give to you.

Or you can keep feeling drained by taking care of everything in your own life yourself, and caring for everyone else at the same time – while feeling like you don't get much back in return.

It's time to make a shift and break the pattern. and when you do, the man in your life will instantly notice and start giving and supporting you more.

I want to ask you to do something for me. I want you to get outside what you've been comfortable with till now as a woman when it comes to men and sharing what you feel, and what you want.

And I want you to take the chance of allowing a man to hear that you have needs and desires of your own that you want him to be the one to give to you, and share with him.

If you're ready to really learn how to share and start to receive more from men in relationships, it doesn't have to feel so scary.

In fact, even if you're in a relationship where you feel stuck in a rut and you're not getting much in the way of love or appreciation back from your man, making the shift to where your man can't help but want to give more love and support to you, and you are open to receiving it couldn't be easier.

All you have to do is to learn the important aspects for what the foundation base of a great relationship really is.

When you have this foundations in place, and you know the simple but powerful relationship skills that come along with them, getting what you want with a man and from your relationship is easy.

Your man makes it easy for you. On the other hand, when you don't have these required skills, and you don't have this foundation base in place in your relationship, then anything can come along and cast doubt and uncertainty on everything in your relationship.

It's time you got to enjoy what it feels like to have your needs met in a relationship.

And it's time you weren't the one to be looking out for everyone else's happiness, when meanwhile you don't feel fulfilled yourself.

As you know, for lots of us relationships are a lot of work. Get out of the cycle and the trap too many women are in of setting things up in your relationship to where it's tons of work and struggle just to try and connect with your man.

And instead start to find out what it's like when love and connection flows and grows stronger over time. I promise you I am going to show you the essential relationship skills that will have you getting what you want from your man, and build that solid relationships foundation base for you.

And if you're not 100% thrilled and ecstatic with the new relationship and love life you have after going through this blog post, then don't pay a thing.

I'm that confident that if you keep reading most of this blog post, can and will turn around your love life, even if you're in a relationship that feels stuck.

Stop trying to do it all yourself. Find out how to have a man ready, waiting, and excited to be the incredible partner you know you want and deserve in your love life.

And remember. It's your job to stay open to giving and receiving love. And it's also your job to get over the fear of what might go wrong, so when you're finally there in front of a great guy you don't mess things up for yourself because you don't know how to let him in into your heart and hold him there forever.

It's a man's job to meet you at this right place and take your love and relationship to the next level with you. If you're a strong, independent woman, then the irony is that it's often even harder for you to truly let down your guard and allow a man to get close to you.

Because you're used to taking care of yourself and doing everything on your own. It's time you made it easy for a man to love you again.

And it's time you allowed love to fill you and create the kind of connection with a man he'll never ever want to be without in his entire love life. If you've been finding that the more you want love, the more you seem to accidentally push good men away. then you need to follow my blog post to turn around your relationship for the sake of your life and love.

And let me know how things change for you. I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love.

Your Friend,

Dukentaxer

Find out what to do in each of these situations, and see if your specific relationship or dating is worth you think it should be.

Sadly, many women will go their entire lives without ever experiencing true love and connection with a man they care about. I don't want you to be one of them. This blog will show you exactly how to find the love you’ve been waiting your whole life to find and do it in a way that will make you feel good inside because you'll know that you're giving yourself and a man what you both Really want - an attractive, happy, and together woman. I personally guarantee it.

I will talk to you again soon. Keep on Dating There is someone out there for

everyone.Best of luck in life and love!

How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You and Give You The World!

When it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find yourself saying? "Why didn't he call?" "How can I find the right man?"Why do I always date losers?"Why doesn't he love me anymore? "What am I doing wrong?

"Why do some women have great relationships with men and mine are always dull, unfulfilling and boring? "If only I could understand men...." 

The secret to understanding men and using it to your advantage is as follows.The important thing to remember is that you're not alone. Most women whether single or married have asked themselves these kinds of questions. The reason women have these concerns is because they simply don't understand men. 

Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you and want to fulfill your every desire? 

Yes, it's true! And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself and not shaping yourself into someone you're not just to keep your man interested. I'll give you solid proof of this in a moment and use that understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and become a woman that a man loves, cherishes, and never want to part with. 

I will talk to ya again soon. 

Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 

Best of luck in love and life!

How to Be the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave

Have you ever met the kind of woman,that men fall hopelessly in love with,women with whom men want to spend all their time
whom men want to please and do anything for  who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man; and  to whom men want to give everything?

What special quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to spend their lives with her?

The startling observation I've made:These women are not necessarily the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!
 
These kinds of women know the secret to creating magic with men.And how to use their five senses and how and where to apply them effectively including the sixth one of cause common sense(which is not common to all women in this case). And here's the good news for you  if you're like most women who struggle with relationship challenges. The ability to create magic with men is not really magic at all. It’s a skill which can be learned by any woman  and that includes you!

 
I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!

Why Do Most Women Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?

There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her heart desires.

The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their girlfriends, who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out; and they read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.

If you're like most women, you probably love talking to your girlfriends about your relationship troubles, and -- yikes! -- asking them for relationship advice. Unless your girlfriend happens to be a professional relationship advisor, who has counseled many couples towards successful relationships -- and unless she herself has a successful relationship with a man (very important!) -- it's unwise to take relationship advice from your girlfriend (or your mother, sister, cousin or aunt, for that matter).

By all means, seek the listening ear of a girlfriend if you simply want to unburden -- and if talking to your girlfriend makes you feel better. But always remember that talking to your girlfriends (as depicted accurately in the once-popular Sex and the City TV series),or(in Desperate House Wives) fosters deeper and better friendships with your girlfriends -- but does nothing to improve your relationships with men.

Now, don't get me wrong. Some of your girlfriends might indeed have the wisdom to give you good advice -- but that advice will almost always be based only on their own limited experience and observation. Just because your girlfriend has had an experience similar to yours doesn't mean her advice applies to your situation.

I chuckle every time I remember the story of a woman who spent hours on the phone with her girlfriend discussing why her boyfriend was giving her the silent treatment, and what she might have done to provoke it, and what she could do to get him talking again. All the while, her boyfriend was just not in a talkative mood because he was worrying that the carburetor in his car wasn't working right!

 
I will talk to ya again soon.  
Keep on Dating!There is someone out there for everyone. 
Best of luck in love and life!