In the desire to please a man, women are constantly doing things to get a man's attention, to get him to like them or to make him more attracted or in love with them.
Another Horrible idea. Lots of women mistakenly think that doing unusual things to try and get a guys attention .will make him magically see what a great catch
they are and want to be with them. Totally Wrong.
Men you truly want are never attracted to the types of women who kiss up to them, make weak plays for affection or complain to get what they want... ever. Don’t get me wrong here. Things like being sexy for a man or encouraging him to share his feelings can be good, but it has to be genuine, unselfish, and most of all timely.
You don't have to act like an "EASY" woman for men to like you, and you certainly don't have to play like he's some gift to the Ear. Doing these things actually works to subtly, at an subconscious level, lower your social status with a man, which has everything to do with how he sees you as a woman.
So if you think that making him more attracted to you means "playing to the man's fantasies" from the start, think again. You'll never succeed by looking for a man's
approval, finding your way into his heart through sex and not being yourself.
Mistake #4) Re-feeling Too Early To A Man
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how their" Desired feelings" too early on. Listen... Attractive, single, successful men are rare.
They get a lot of attention from women.
Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women. And guess what? Attractive when have usually dated a lot of women. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything... It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the man that you're just like one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives. This does not spell attraction for a man. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...
Mistake #5) Failing To Read The Important "Symptoms" From Your Man
Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves. Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.
The symptoms men send have several levels:
a). Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction
b). Emotional: Whether or not he's "emotionally available"
c). Physical: If he's attracted to you and for what reasons
d).
The amazing thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident.
That's great news to women.... Men can't help it! You need to learn to recognize these signs to get anywhere with a man.
Mistake #6) Being Too Proud to Ask
This is the biggest mistake of all. This mistake keeps women from EVER having
the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want.
I know, you don't like to make yourself look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask
for help. Hey, I've been there myself. Let me tell you a little about me.
Over the last few years it's been hard to watch the women around me (even those I dated) struggle to understand the men they were attracted to or dating.
It frustrated the hell out of me and I made the decision to do whatever it took to
help the women I knew learn how to be successful with men and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world
truth about men and women, I finally figured things out for myself.
I've read hundreds of books on psychology, human behavior, dating/relationship advice for men and women, love, attraction, communication,
and more. The list goes on. I can now approach just about any situation
with dating and feel confident and understand everything that's going on in an interaction.
Best of all, I've been able to share my knowledge and help women become more successful with men and dating. It's been a very rewarding experience, and
it's how I became fascinated with the female perspective in the dating world.
I've helped women get rid of that sick, insecure feeling... the one you get when you're
lonely, you've been hurt or lied to, or when a man you have feelings for says "he's not ready". You don't have to be afraid you might wind up being lied to, cheated on or that you'll end up alone.
