Saturday, April 5, 2008

How Women Push Men Out Love-Life Relationships By Mistakes...

The deadly Mistakes women Probably Make With Men -That most of them are pushing out the Right man OFF their LOVE-LIFE. HOW CAN they OVERCOME them?...Here Are A FEW REASONS Why MOST Women Cheat Themselves Out Of Living The Love Life Of They're Dreams- but they are not...
in turns or at once or time after time.

Mistake #1) Not sure of her Love-Life with the man she is in love with.

Do you know any women who want the man they're dating to behave differently? Of course you do.
And just like me, I'm sure you have friends who date guys who don't have much going for them
or who don't treat them very well. Somehow these women always have an excuse for the guy's shortcomings .What's going on here? It's actually very simple. Women (and men) don't base their choices of
men on how "nice" or "good" someone is to them day-to-day.

Women choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what? Some women will continue to put up with a guy that doesn't treat them very well.
Sometimes for months or years...But why in the world would a woman do that!? Well, to put it simply, they confuse the strong attraction they feel for the guy with a deeper "connection".

Women who do this are doomed to end up in failed relationships with the "wrong" guys. How do I know?
Because I've seen it at least a hundred times... And because I've been this guy in the past
myself. Thinking back on past dating and relationships I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much.

I'm amazed the women put up with me. But they did...all the while hoping that I would somehow change. The women I dated hoped I'd change. The only thing they saw in me that led them to want to keep me around was the "potential" they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate with them.

The potential for something better and the potential for me to change and be a better lover, boyfriend,
The truth was, I was hopelessly bad at these things at the time. And more importantly, I wasn't even at a place in my life where I knew how to or was interested in developing a deep and committed relationship -
with ANYONE. But deep down these women believed that if they tried hard enough, that it would make up for what was lacking.

They believed that I could become someone else with them.... and that this would be easy for us
both. Talk about a losing battle. I doesn't make a lot of "logical" sense... But until you accept that lots of women do this AND that YOU could be doing it on some level, you'll NEVER have the success with men that you choose and want.


Men are different from women. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a woman sees a man, she can very quickly pick apart certain things about his style, body language, status and character that will tell her all kinds of things about him. Lot's of women don't even consciously see that they do this because the process is so obvious and simple for them. But does the same apply for men? As you probably already know, men are generally more visual.

As a result, they often don't understand non-verbal communication as well as women. And men often lack what women have in emotional awareness and "intuition". Women don't seem to remember this about men. So do men feel sexually attracted to w0men based just on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for years now, and talking to thousands of men and women, I can
tell you that men have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Especially when it comes to longer term relationships. Looks just happen to be the most obvious way...
But looks are NOT the most powerful. If you know how to use your body language AND communication correctly, you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great guy that you got to know. But it's not an accident.
You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY woman can learn how...

No comments:

Post a Comment